Epic meltdowns, defiance, and unprovoked upset from a child can leave parents feeling lost and unsure how to manage. Remember, you have a good kid and you are good parents. Loving parents can have good kids who are having a tough time. You are doing your best amidst a challenging situation. You might feel some combination of overwhelmed, hopeless, burnt out, anxious, stressed, and disconnected from your partner. You might even feel guilt and be desperate to find a solution. Counselling offers a supportive space for parents to explore new strategies and perspectives. Evidence-based therapeutic approaches can help families build connections, understand behaviours, identify triggers, and expand their parental toolkit.

Big feelings are part of growing up. When children learn to notice, name, and navigate their emotions, they handle stress better, relate more kindly to others, and bounce back from setbacks. That skill set, often called emotional intelligence, can be taught and practised at home in small, everyday moments.

Here we’ll share practical ways to build these skills, with simple language you can use right away.