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We serve communities across southern Vancouver Island, primarily Westshore and the Greater Victoria area.
Creative Horizons Counselling is located in Westshore, Victoria, British Columbia.
Overworked, Overscheduled, Overwhelmed
There is a particular kind of exhaustion that doesn’t come from working a long day or a bad night’s sleep. It’s the exhaustion of never stopping. Of moving from one thing to the next — from the alarm to the inbox to the meeting to the carpool to dinner to the inbox again — without a single moment that belongs fully to you. It’s the exhaustion of a life lived at the speed of demand rather than the speed of a human being.
One of the things therapy offers, in a culture that rarely offers it, is time entirely your own. Not productive time. Not optimized time. Time to sit with your own experience, to say out loud the things that have been running in the background, to figure out what you actually need.
For many people, the therapeutic hour is the only part of the week where they are not performing, not managing, not achieving anything except understanding themselves a little better.
That, in itself, can be healing.
Anxiety isn’t the enemy you think it is
We live in a culture that treats anxiety as a malfunction. Something to be eliminated, medicated away, or overcome through sheer willpower. But anxiety is one of the most ancient and intelligent systems in the human body. The question isn’t how to get rid of it — it’s how to understand it.
Journaling is More Than Just Words
An Introduction to Visual Journaling
Most of us grew up with a particular image of journaling: a notebook, a pen, and sentences that trail across a page. Dear Diary… And while written journaling has real and lasting benefits, it’s not the only way to process, reflect, and express what’s happening inside you.
For many people, especially those who find blank pages intimidating, who think in images rather than sentences, or who feel like their inner world doesn’t quite fit into words, visual journaling can be a genuinely transformative practice.
At Creative Horizons Counselling, creative expression is a core part of how we support clients. Visual journaling can be a meaningful complement to therapeutic work — a way to continue processing between sessions, to track emotional patterns, or simply to build a more intentional relationship with your inner world.
When Two Come Together: Understanding Sibling Sessions in Therapy
As a parent, watching your children struggle to get along or watching one child navigate a world that feels built for someone else can be heartbreaking. You may have wondered whether therapy could help. Individual therapy is often the first step, but for many families, there comes a point where bringing siblings into the room together opens up something new, something that one-on-one work simply can't reach.
Sibling sessions aren't right for every family or every moment. But when they're a good fit, they can be genuinely transformative, for the relationship, and for each child individually.
Do I Have Disordered Eating? Signs, Symptoms, and How to Get Help.
Do you—or someone you care about—spend a lot of time thinking about food, weight, or body image? It can feel exhausting to be stuck in these patterns.
Disordered eating and eating disorders can hide in plain sight. Sometimes, the people around us—even family, friends, or medical professionals—may unintentionally reinforce these behaviours. Advice like “eat less and exercise more” can sound harmless, but for some, it can contribute to a more complicated relationship with food.
Learn the signs of disordered eating, including binge–restrict cycles, food anxiety, and body image concerns—and how support can help you rebuild your relationship with food.
Coming Off GLP-1s: What Happens When Food Noise Returns (And How to Cope)
Coming off GLP-1 medications like Ozempic? Learn why food noise and hunger can return and how to navigate changes in your relationship with food.
Conversations about GLP-1 medications like Ozempic, Wegovy, and others are everywhere right now. This is not an opinion piece about whether these medications are “good” or “bad.” Instead, this is an offer of support for those who may be coming off a GLP-1, adjusting to changes in appetite and food noise, or considering starting one while also navigating a complicated relationship with eating.
Guilt vs Shame in Children: What Every Parent Needs to Know
Guilt and shame are two emotions that look almost identical on the outside, but inside your child’s mind, they are worlds apart. Understanding the difference could be one of the most important things you do as a parent. This distinction isn’t just clinical jargon. It’s something every parent can learn to recognise, and once you do, it changes how you respond to your child in some of the most important moments of their childhood. The core difference: what a child thinks the problem is. Here is the simplest way I explain it to parents in my practice: “Guilt says, ‘I did something bad.’ Shame says, ‘I am bad.’ ”
Parenting Children with Complex Needs
Epic meltdowns, defiance, and unprovoked upset from a child can leave parents feeling lost and unsure how to manage. Remember, you have a good kid and you are good parents. Loving parents can have good kids who are having a tough time. You are doing your best amidst a challenging situation. You might feel some combination of overwhelmed, hopeless, burnt out, anxious, stressed, and disconnected from your partner. You might even feel guilt and be desperate to find a solution. Counselling offers a supportive space for parents to explore new strategies and perspectives. Evidence-based therapeutic approaches can help families build connections, understand behaviours, identify triggers, and expand their parental toolkit.
Understanding the 8 Senses: A Caregiver’s Guide
When children “act out,” refuse certain foods, or struggle with transitions, it often ties back to their sensory world. Understanding the eight senses helps you recognize what overwhelms or soothes your child; create environments that support regulation (quiet corners, movement breaks, sensory play); and foster empathy by remembering your child’s behaviour is communication.
Teen Mental Health and the Hidden Toll of Mean Girl Aggression
Mean Girl Aggression (MGA), also known as relational aggression, is a form of emotional or social bullying. It can show up through gossip, exclusion, social manipulation, and online bullying. Much of it happens quietly and behind screens, which means adults often don’t see it happening at all. MGA is usually covert and passive-aggressive. It’s easy for those engaging in it to deny or downplay their behaviour, leaving the person on the receiving end feeling anxious, confused, or even like they’re overreacting. Over time, these experiences can lead to anxiety, depression, sleep problems, lower grades, substance use, or withdrawal from school and activities they once loved.

